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Angels and Spirit Guide |
| You are never alone. Your Angels and Guides are with you every step of the
way. You must choose to listen. They may impress you with images, either
while awake or asleep. They may send you a feeling of happiness or
uneasiness to help you make the best decision for yourself.
So many of my clients ask me, “Why are my Angels and Guides doing this to
me?” Please, understand they are not doing harm to you. You make your own
choices and it is up to you to listen. You are always responsible for the
changes and happenings in your life. Your Angels and Guides will step in
whenever they have the opportunity. Your prayers are never unheard.
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Choosing A Psychic |
| Every one of us has the gift of
clairvoyance. However, not all of us choose to use the gift or know
how to use it. Many “so-called “ psychics tend to take advantage of
the individual that is so desperately searching for answers in their
time of need. I always tell my clients to search for the answer within
before seeking spiritual guidance. 90% of the time YOU already know
the answer. When choosing a psychic be aware of the candle burners
that make you stay on the phone. No One and I mean No One can burn
candles to make the one you love come back to you! This is their
choice. You can’t make someone love you or want to be with you. Please
think about if you did! Would you really want to be with that person? |
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 The Awakening
A time comes in your life when you finally get it. When in the midst of
all your fears and insanity you stop dead in your tracks and somewhere the
voice inside your head cries out--ENOUGH!
Enough fighting and crying or struggling to hold on. And, like a child
quieting down after a blind tantrum, your sobs begin to subside, you shudder
once or twice, you blink back your tears and through a mantle of wet lashes
you begin to look at the world through new eyes.
This is your awakening. You realize that it's time to stop hoping and
waiting for something to change, or for happiness, safety and security to
come galloping over the next horizon. You come to terms with the fact that
he is NOT Prince Charming and you are NOT Cinderella and that in the real
world there aren't always fairy tale endings (or beginnings for that
matter). And that any guarantee of "happily ever after" must begin with YOU,
and in the process a sense of serenity is born of acceptance.
You awaken to the fact that you are not perfect, and that not everyone will
always love, appreciate or approve of who or what you are and it's OK. (They
are entitled to their own views and opinions) And you learn the importance
of loving and championing yourself, and in the process a sense of newly
found confidence is born of self-approval.
You stop complaining and blaming other people for the things they did to you
(or didn't do for you) and you learn that the only thing you can really
count on is the unexpected. You learn that not everyone will always be there
for you, and that it's not always about you. So, you learn to stand on your
own and to take care of yourself and in the process, a sense of safety and
security is born of self-reliance.
You stop judging and pointing fingers, and you begin to accept people as
they are, and to overlook their shortcomings and human frailties, and in the
process a sense of peace and contentment is born of forgiveness.
You realize that much of the way you view yourself, and the world around
you, is the result of all the messages and opinions that have been ingrained
into your psyche. And you begin to sift through all the crap you've been fed
about how you should behave, how you should look, how much you shouldn't
weigh, what you should wear, where you should shop, what you should drive,
how and where you should live, what you should do for a living, who you
should marry, what you should expect of a marriage, the importance of having
and raising children, or what you owe your parents.
You learn to open to new worlds and different points of view. And you begin
reassessing and redefining who you are and what you really stand for. You
learn the difference between wanting and needing, and you begin to discard
the doctrines and values you've outgrown, or should never had bought into to
begin with, and in the process you learn to go with your instincts. You
learn to distinguish between guilt and responsibility, and the importance of
setting boundaries and learning to say NO. You learn that the only cross to
bear is the one you choose to carry, and that martyrs get burned at the
stake.
Then you learn about love. Romantic love and familial love. How to love, how
much to give, when to stop giving, and when to walk away. You learn not to
project your needs or your feelings onto a relationship. You learn that you
will NOT be more beautiful, more intelligent, more lovable, or important
because of the man or woman on your arm or the child that bears your name.
You learn to look at relationships as they really are and not as you would
have them be. You stop trying to control people, situations, and outcomes.
You learn that just as people grow and change, so it is with love. And you
learn that you don't have the right to demand love on your terms. Just to
make you happy. And, you learn that "alone" does NOT mean lonely.
And you look in the mirror and come to terms with the fact that you will
never be a size 5 or a perfect 10, and you stop trying to compete with the
image inside your head and agonizing over how you "stack up". You also stop
working so hard at putting feelings aside, smoothing things over, and
ignoring your needs.
You learn that feelings or entitlement are perfectly OK. . . and that it is
your right to want the things you want. And sometimes it is necessary to
make demands. You come to the realization that you deserve to be treated
with love, kindness, sensitivity and respect and you will NOT settle for
less. And you allow only the hands of a lover who cherishes you, to glorify
you with his or her touch. And in the process you internalize the meaning of
self-respect.
And you learn that your body really is your temple. You begin eating a
balanced diet, drinking more water, and taking more time to exercise. You
learn that fatigue diminishes the spirit and can create doubt and fear, so
you take more time to rest. And just as food fuels the body, laughter fuels
our souls, so you take more time to laugh and play.
And you learn that, for the most part, in life you get what you believe you
deserve. And much of life is a self-fulfilling prophecy. You learn that
anything worth achieving is worth working for, and that wishing for
something to happen is different from working toward making it happen. More
importantly, you learn that in order to achieve success, you need direction,
discipline and perseverance.
You also learn that no one can do it all alone and it's OK to risk asking
for help. You learn that the only thing you must truly fear is the great
robber baron of all time: FEAR itself. You learn to step right into and
through your fears, because you know that whatever happens you can handle
it, and to give in to fear is to give away the right to live life on your
terms.
You learn to fight for your life and not to squander it living under a cloud
of impending doom. You learn that life isn't always fair, you don't always
get what you think you deserve, and that sometimes, bad things happen to
unsuspecting, good people. On these occasions you learn not to personalize
things. You learn that God isn't punishing you or failing to answer your
prayers, It's just life happening. And you learn to deal with evil in its
most primal state - the ego.
You learn that negative feelings such as anger, envy and resentment, must be
understood and redirected, or they will suffocate the life out of you and
poison the universe that surrounds you.
You learn to admit when you are wrong and to build bridges instead of walls.
You learn to be thankful and to take comfort in many of the simple things we
all take for granted, things that millions of people upon the earth can only
dream about like a full refrigerator, clean running water, a soft warm bed
or a long hot shower. Slowly, you begin to take responsibility for yourself,
by yourself, and you try to make yourself a promise to never betray yourself
and to never settle for less than your heart's desire.
And you hang a wind chime outside your window so you can listen to the wind.
And you make it a point to keep smiling, to keep trusting, and to stay open
to every wonderful possibility.
Finally, with courage in your heart and with God by your side, you take a
stand, you take a deep breath, and you begin to design the life YOU WANT to
live as best as you can.
Author Unknown
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